Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Best Friends!!

I used to disagree with my best friend 10 years back and always had debate on:
Is it necessary to stay together to keep being best friends, keep sharing things.. I always believed NOT, and he believed YES.. Even today (we rarely talk now), I believe the same thing, and may be he also believes the same thing (so we are not close???).

I have learnt in my life that there are very few people who can maintain good friendship when they are not together, when they don't get chance to meet each other from time to time.. I am one of those few people, but you don't find many of us.. so best thing in life is to share things with the person you are spending maximum time with, he/she should be your best friend in life.. For me, it's my wife.. and for most of us it should be our spouse..

I have observed that you can still have great life without having a person with whom you can be yourself, where you can express your hapiness, fears, aspirations, expectations from life, etc., but if you have someone like this in your life, you can have a greater life...

As I said in my previous article, don't loose your best friends ever for no good reason... and also try and identify them, they may be well around you... taking care of you without you noticing it.. could be your mom/dad/bro/sis/wife/son/friend...

It's never late!! and you are never old to make good friends!!

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